Isn’t that what we’re all gunning for. I’ll say two things that come mind when I think about The Right Answer. I was a debater in university, and we were taught to think about being “right” not in the sense of truth, but “correct alignment with intent”. That is to say, we recognize both sides … Continue reading Oh boy, to be Right. →

I'm taking part in an online Workshop on Communications (more info here), and today's session was about Listening. They listed a bunch of prompts: Who comes to mind when you think of a great listener? How many great listeners are there in your life? When was the last time you felt really listened to? How … Continue reading Listen up! →

For a few years, I worked on a professional development program in the US. Our students were government officials from ASEAN countries. These are top-class middle management fellows, primed for bigger things, some earmarked for high-profile placements. At least 10% have a PhD. Despite often being the youngest one in the room, on top of … Continue reading Gloss Over →

Fellow to Speaker: What do you suggest we can do to maintain our optimism? Speaker: That is a question I would say you need to answer yourself. But I would suggest figuring out exactly what is bothering you. Figure out what is bothering you.

Sat in on Scott's class in Connections and Intersections this morning. I miss being in class! I love this kind of education where I don't worry which part of this module I need to retain for examinations. We're all just here, present, with open minds (hopefully). Some notes: Adam Kahane on Power and Love: Power … Continue reading Cynefin →